relationships
The biggest problem behind American divorce is the biggest problem in America: selfishness. The reason you marry an individual is the same reason you divorce them. You want that sweet, sensitive guy that will listen to you and you can have late conversations with under the stars? You bet. You can get that, but don’t whine when he doesn’t fuck you in the ass…and don’t be disappointed when he choses to run from a fight…and don’t be surprised when he doesn’t be ‘the man’ that you think he should be. You want that tough guy with the torn leather coat that is strong and ‘takes charge’? He’s out there. But don’t bitch when you can’t change his mind. And be completely ready to have a guy that won’t listen to you and your problems because guess what, he doesn’t care. Oh, and the big surprise: you like the bad boy…the one who calls you a dirty whore…the one who is pisses off authority and fulfills your need to rebel? No problem. He will gladly take you for a ride and fuck you over, use you, and make you feel worthless inside. All that nice packaging for boy x is just a cover for the ugly prize inside.

Wow… that is uh… negative.
the flip side: a giving spirit makes this post meaningless. If you are a giver, a lover, a friend…and dedicate yourself to that cause, then you can rise above the negative and positive changes in your lover. The reality is that meaningful marriages/relationships can’t last if you are bent on being the consumer willing to take 110%
Yeah, well fuck you too Matt.
Cause your right.